Well I don't know how this is for other people... but if I said "I have a lot of money" I would immediately think "No I have not obviously" and that would destroy my intention.
Important to attract what you want is that your feeling about it is good and happy.
When I think "the probability that I have a lot of money is increasing right now and permanently" I have a very good feeling, because that's true, so I have no contraditory thoughts.
If I think "wouldn't it be nice to have a lot of money?" my thoughts about having a lot of money can only be positive too, because yes, it would be nice. No contradictory thoughts either.
From the moment you want something, it's already true, you already have it. The point is to let it come into your life. And that will only happen when you have a good feeling about it. How can you attract a relationship when you feel disappointed and bad 374 times a day thinking of it, because you think that you don't have one?
Find out what works best for you. For me personally, intending in present tense doesn't work. Maybe it's different for you.
I mean, you should imagine you already have it, and feel you have it, but you don't need to think you have it. Intending is not about convincing yourself your reality is not the reality you're living in. It's about developing a good feeling for someting in order to invite it into your life.
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