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Guy665 · 10-15-2007, 11:48 AM

Hi,

I have some questions and would appreciate some feedback.

I have been spending a lot of time exploring each area of my life and working out very precise goals for each area.

For example one of my goals in the area of relationships is the following -

" I am in a deeply fullfilling and meaningful relationship with a wonderful stunning girl".

I know this is exaclty what I want and I have been supporting this intention with daily visulisations, positve affirmations, vision boards and even seeding (the feeling of having aquired it already).

For example as part of my morning workout routine I actually spend 10 minutes while warming up repeating the following "I am so happy and grateful NOW that I am in deeply fullfilling and meaningful relationship with a wonderful stunning girl". I actually get the feeling that I am in the relationship and feel very excited and great.

The problem is that at the moment I haven't yet attracted this relationship and I find it hard to believe it when my reality is the opposite. I do all this work really trying to believe it and then my mind takes over and tells me the opposite. For example even though I can convince myself for a time that the relationship is a reality when I'm lying in bed on my own my mind likes to tell me the exact opposite.

Does anybody have any ideas on how to keep believing the intention when what it is that I want to attract is not yet reality?

I hope this makes sense, really what I am saying is how can I keep the faith when my reality is the exact opposite.

Any comments would be apprecaited.

10-15-2007, 11:48 AM	#1 (permalink)
Guy665 Member Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 46	Believing in the Unseen Hi, I have some questions and would appreciate some feedback. I have been spending a lot of time exploring each area of my life and working out very precise goals for each area. For example one of my goals in the area of relationships is the following - " I am in a deeply fullfilling and meaningful relationship with a wonderful stunning girl". I know this is exaclty what I want and I have been supporting this intention with daily visulisations, positve affirmations, vision boards and even seeding (the feeling of having aquired it already). For example as part of my morning workout routine I actually spend 10 minutes while warming up repeating the following "I am so happy and grateful NOW that I am in deeply fullfilling and meaningful relationship with a wonderful stunning girl". I actually get the feeling that I am in the relationship and feel very excited and great. The problem is that at the moment I haven't yet attracted this relationship and I find it hard to believe it when my reality is the opposite. I do all this work really trying to believe it and then my mind takes over and tells me the opposite. For example even though I can convince myself for a time that the relationship is a reality when I'm lying in bed on my own my mind likes to tell me the exact opposite. Does anybody have any ideas on how to keep believing the intention when what it is that I want to attract is not yet reality? I hope this makes sense, really what I am saying is how can I keep the faith when my reality is the exact opposite. Any comments would be apprecaited.