Mind you I know a guy that did just that, they broke up, and he told her if we ever get back together, it will be for good.
Today they are happily married. I think they were in there early 20s (or late teens) when they first broke up.
I guess we never really know the future. Taking risks is part of the game.
Although I agree very much with with Rose of Cairo, party with your GF, or with your friends. just have fun, a relationship should add to the fun. not make you feel like your missing out.
But many guys I know were only ready for a relationship when they were truely sick of their bachlorism. And when they finally got to that point they became so commited, and ready to compromise and work for the relationship, before that they only broke many hearts.
I guess, from what Ive seen a guy needs to get that point before being in a relationship. maybe you are just not there yet.
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