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Originally Posted by Anya  Hi Gooboy!!!
I am (obviously) a girl, so I'll respond to you how I would feel about this situation from the girl's stand point.
All I've heard so far is....me, me, me ...what about her? Did you think about her? If I would've been in her place, I would rather have a mutual split and go on with my own life. I would never want to be accused of a "stolen" fun youth. No way!
So, please, count her feeling in as well. I hope that was not too harsh. 
Good luck! |
Hi Anya,
I fully agree with you. She is a wonderful person and it is not fair to play with her feelings. This is why I need to take some decision asap. I talk a lot about myself because I am the problem, not she.
It just won't help anything to tell her about all those feelings before deciding anything, don't you think? Otherwise she will just feel horrible and want to break up immediately...
If I were in her place I would maybe give him some limited time to make up his mind (that's exactly what I am struggling with) but on the long run I would not be able to keep the relationship.
Cheers