Hello there!
I cannot advise what you should do, but I can tell you how I created my intention for my future soulmate.
I wrote down everything I wanted to have in a partner: non-smoker, occasional drinker, non-drug user, and most importantly, have a strong connection to God
OR SOMETHING BETTER. I attached that phrase to my intention because I didn't want to limit God's intentions for my life. If I can still have what I wanted, but I always wanted to be open to SOMETHING BETTER!
In six months, I did find my soulmate and got everything I asked for AND more!

That was almost three years ago and we're still in love and growing together and learning from each other.
I hope that helps. Good luck to you!
