Cheers,
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Originally Posted by Wulfen It's dangerous grounds to "become alpha" while in a relationship, because your partner will always oppose the change. It's not specifical to girlfriends or wives, it's just because people have expectations from other people and they don't want to change that perception. For instance when you start becoming more alpha even your guy friends will try to "put you back in your place", simply because you're challenging the status quo. |
Yes, this is why we move out of our childhood homes, for example. I seem to grow so fast that I have trouble staying in one circle of friends too long - in ten years, I've built from scratch and later abandoned two successive circles of friends. So I understand that extreme care that is needed.
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Originally Posted by xyz I think it will be easier for you if you encourage your wife to practice art of seduction herself first. Coax her to spread her wings and fly.This way she will be able to enjoy the benefits of seduction herself and will become an advocate of this art. In future she will not require any "adjustments" in this regard. |
Yes, this would be absolutely true.
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Originally Posted by Wulfen you could for instance start seducing your wife again |
I have already had a related 30-day trial...
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Originally Posted by Wulfen you can start playfully pushpulling other women in semi-public places |
This would be the big step. I feel very uncomfortable about initiating a conversion with a stranger, and many times worse still when I have a "hidden agenda". I have worked as a professional lecturer, which is easy: just have enough knowledge of your subject, have enough motivation, and stick to the point, but I've never been very good in approaching strangers.
What I have learned in body-building is this: the most important thing is that you go to gym regularly. The second most important thing is that you avoid over-extending yourself, since if you are injured, you will miss a lot of training sessions, and lose your rhythm and motivation in the process. If you do 1) and 2) right, time is your ally, and you will grow stronger every month and every year.
Since I have the advantage of not being single and desperate, I can use time as an ally. Therefore: what would be the _smallest_ thing for me to do that, repeated regularly enough (once a day for 30 days, for example) would be an improvement, such that after said 30 days, I would not feel anxiety and could install it as a habit?
-SS