Hi,
Where to start is a personal question. I started by researching the question: how to deal with a diffult mother; Google returned Steve Pavlina's web-page. It's been an incredible time of growth for me. The greatest influences for me have been reading the Power of Now, New Earth (Eckhart Tolle) and I AM THAT (Nisargaddata). So, me emotional issues were most important. I have bettered life in other ways; currently in the way of diet. The wonder is that when we concentrate on BEING instead of having/doing/thinking: things happen all by themself. I love it.