Originally Posted by Scott
Actually, a part of me hopes that she is "more perfect" than I am (in some aspects) so that she can help me grow in those areas; similarly, I will strive to be as "perfect" as possible in my strong areas so that I can help her grow. This is where that first item comes in - complement my strengths and pinpoint my weaknesses.
Yeah Scott, can actually sense your definition stems from this longing to somehow along the way be that perfect person too.
I mean, it's a vision you have for this perfect woman, so subconsciously it could be a reflection of the vision you have for yourself eventually. Agree?
Originally Posted by Erock
Wow, I don't know about a perfect woman. It's weird, a lot of my guy friends get crushes on certain girls for months and months at a time. For me, it's totally different. I absolutely fall in love with a girl, and 15 minutes later I will absolutely fall in love with another girl. They are all so perfect....
Hey Erock, that's when the difference of "being in love" and really to love someone kicks in