First of all, you shouldn't fret over your peers having had more sex than you. It's admirable that you stuck to your value of avoiding premarital sex. Being a man who sticks to his cause is ultimately more valuable than bragging rights about the number of chicks you banged before settling down...
The idea of an arranged marriage is completely alien to me. I firmly believe that there is only one person in this world qualified to find me a partner and that is little old me. Still, if you are comfortable with an arranged marriage, I see no reason why you shouldn't pursue it. Again, this is about you and your values - not what others may think.
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