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Cheers,

And thank you Wulfen for your insights.

Originally Posted by Wulfen

My philosophy is that the core of seduction is to become a better person, to develop an attractive personality and to learnt to transmit it better, and quicker.

I can agree with that, and additionally, you can use this skill in the business world.

Originally Posted by Wulfen

If you want to know more about my philosophy I've written about it before in this same forum, you can read some of my posts in the "Social & Relationships" forum here (check my post history). You might find not all of us are so deeply buried in the dark side after all

You seem to have some very good points, I think I'll learn some more (well, I've never figured myself as an "alpha male" since the word automatically connotates to the school bully with a loud voice and big fists, or the Spanish "manly man" which is held as some kind of a joke here in the liberal North - but the qualities are pretty much what I'd expect a successful man to have.)

Originally Posted by Wulfen

So yes, in my opinion you can apply some of the seduction advice in your life. That won't erode your soul or anything like that. It's like martial arts, you learn something that actually works, and it's up to you if you use it for the greater good or for evil purposes. And I don't consider giving girls a good time anthing evil at all

Muahahaha... I will use seduction to dominate the world! Well, I have no fear for my soul, my biggest worry is that engaging in heavy auto-suggestion will lead to self-deceit and can damage my honest and critical view of things.

Originally Posted by Wulfen

Being with her does not prevent me from going on learning and practicing seduction. She's well aware of what I do in this coach thing of mine, so while in clubs I approach and chat up girls (and everyone, actually) whether I am with her or not at that time. Frankly, can anything be more attractive to a woman than seeing other women become attracted to his man, but knowing that he's with her in the end?

Having discussed this with my wife, I think she would still need some "adjustment" in order to agree with this... of course it is easier in the beginning of a relationship, but I didn't think it as important then. Hopefully, the worst I'll be getting now is reciprocity, which would be actually interesting...