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Wulfen · 10-09-2007, 08:10 AM

I am a so-called "Pick-Up Artist" and I run live workshops in Madrid, Spain, with positive reviews so far.

My philosophy is that the core of seduction is to become a better person, to develop an attractive personality and to learnt to transmit it better, and quicker.

Not all of us make use of "canned game": routines and gimmicks to deceive the girls. Some of us believe that the best way to become more attractive is to develop or social skills, physical appearance, lifestyle and so on. I for one am not fond of Mystery-style pickup as seen in the book "The Game", my favourite gurus are Jugger, Vin DiCarlo aka "Woodhaven", Franco, and Tyler from Real Social Dynamics.

If you want to know more about my philosophy I've written about it before in this same forum, you can read some of my posts in the "Social & Relationships" forum here (check my post history). You might find not all of us are so deeply buried in the dark side after all

So yes, in my opinion you can apply some of the seduction advice in your life. That won't erode your soul or anything like that. It's like martial arts, you learn something that actually works, and it's up to you if you use it for the greater good or for evil purposes. And I don't consider giving girls a good time anthing evil at all

About your second question, I have had multiple, non-monogamous relationships in the past (up until two weeks ago, actually). I am in a committed relationship now. Of course, not out of fear: I don't have a fear of losing her, nor I have any jealousy at all that she might be with other men. I'm with her just because it's the one I've liked most from among all the girls I've met these past years (and being a pickup coach, that's a helluva lot of them).

Being with her does not prevent me from going on learning and practicing seduction. She's well aware of what I do in this coach thing of mine, so while in clubs I approach and chat up girls (and everyone, actually) whether I am with her or not at that time. Frankly, can anything be more attractive to a woman than seeing other women become attracted to his man, but knowing that he's with her in the end?

10-09-2007, 08:10 AM	#5 (permalink)
Wulfen Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 91	I am a so-called "Pick-Up Artist" and I run live workshops in Madrid, Spain, with positive reviews so far. My philosophy is that the core of seduction is to become a better person, to develop an attractive personality and to learnt to transmit it better, and quicker. Not all of us make use of "canned game": routines and gimmicks to deceive the girls. Some of us believe that the best way to become more attractive is to develop or social skills, physical appearance, lifestyle and so on. I for one am not fond of Mystery-style pickup as seen in the book "The Game", my favourite gurus are Jugger, Vin DiCarlo aka "Woodhaven", Franco, and Tyler from Real Social Dynamics. If you want to know more about my philosophy I've written about it before in this same forum, you can read some of my posts in the "Social & Relationships" forum here (check my post history). You might find not all of us are so deeply buried in the dark side after all So yes, in my opinion you can apply some of the seduction advice in your life. That won't erode your soul or anything like that. It's like martial arts, you learn something that actually works, and it's up to you if you use it for the greater good or for evil purposes. And I don't consider giving girls a good time anthing evil at all About your second question, I have had multiple, non-monogamous relationships in the past (up until two weeks ago, actually). I am in a committed relationship now. Of course, not out of fear: I don't have a fear of losing her, nor I have any jealousy at all that she might be with other men. I'm with her just because it's the one I've liked most from among all the girls I've met these past years (and being a pickup coach, that's a helluva lot of them). Being with her does not prevent me from going on learning and practicing seduction. She's well aware of what I do in this coach thing of mine, so while in clubs I approach and chat up girls (and everyone, actually) whether I am with her or not at that time. Frankly, can anything be more attractive to a woman than seeing other women become attracted to his man, but knowing that he's with her in the end? Last edited by Wulfen; 10-09-2007 at 08:33 AM.