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Originally Posted by Rose of Cairo  From my experience I would say, yes, absolutely. Check the Law of Detachment. Letting it go after having intended something is an important component of consciously using the LoA. That's difficult if you're emotionally very involved of course. When you're emotionally too attached to the outcome, you may get too obsessed about it, or have some fears or doubts about it, and that blocks the manifestation. Best is not thinking about it anymore after you intended it - in such a case like yours that's difficult, I know.
Additionally, I wouldn't focus on that special job for that special person, but rather on the kind of relationship you want to have - then let the universe handle all details (like with whom, when, and if with that person, how, and if because of a job, thanks to what job). You may read this article by Erin about that topic  |
I think that it isn't that detachment is necessarily required, it is that those things we are emotionally attached to we have more deep seeded beliefs about. Everything is manifested immediately and without effort, it is allowing those manifestations into our awareness which takes time and effort.
Our underlying beliefs determine what we allow into our experience, and we can tell those by what causes us the most emotional comfort or discomfort. Pay close attention to those feelings regarding your desires, as they show you your beliefs which will either align (bringing the manifestation into awareness) or they don't align (blocking manifestation).