Hi Tefakora.
I'm working on this too. Like you, I didn't even realize that I was closed. Now I try and release tidbits about myself into the conversation. I'm getting better at it. It may help you to start slow. Like you said, not everyone needs to know that your deepest-darkest secrets. Hmm, but you like the Red Soxs? Okay. You have a weird habit of eating ice? Ok.
You know, the little things.
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