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Wanderer · 11-17-2006, 10:43 PM

1) Yes, it will obviously be easier if you already have some qualities of the natural leader but you can improve your leadership skills.
2) I dont know if this would appeal (its not for many people) but if you could join an officer training course in the army, do the leadership training, and then lead I think its for a minimum of 3 years in the UK, you would come out with some excellent leadership experience, a very firm foundation of what works and what doesnt, a nest egg of money that you will have been able to save as officer pay is fairly high with low outgoings and a past experience which may bind people to your cause (e.g.) many people will appreciate that you fought trying to keep this country safe
3) The most essential skill for a natural leader is charisma. My brother can often be a real prat, but when he suggests something and enthuses over it I feel myself feeling the same, he literally transfers his passion to me, and I very quickly normally move over to his cause. All I can suggest for gaining charisma is try to be likable, a person of power and influence, and dont show your weaknesses. Public speaking is also very important, you could try joining a club like Steve, or just practice reading in church etc.

Hope this helps
Good Luck

11-17-2006, 10:43 PM	#8 (permalink)
Wanderer Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Sheffield, United Kingdom Posts: 201	1) Yes, it will obviously be easier if you already have some qualities of the natural leader but you can improve your leadership skills. 2) I dont know if this would appeal (its not for many people) but if you could join an officer training course in the army, do the leadership training, and then lead I think its for a minimum of 3 years in the UK, you would come out with some excellent leadership experience, a very firm foundation of what works and what doesnt, a nest egg of money that you will have been able to save as officer pay is fairly high with low outgoings and a past experience which may bind people to your cause (e.g.) many people will appreciate that you fought trying to keep this country safe 3) The most essential skill for a natural leader is charisma. My brother can often be a real prat, but when he suggests something and enthuses over it I feel myself feeling the same, he literally transfers his passion to me, and I very quickly normally move over to his cause. All I can suggest for gaining charisma is try to be likable, a person of power and influence, and dont show your weaknesses. Public speaking is also very important, you could try joining a club like Steve, or just practice reading in church etc. Hope this helps Good Luck __________________ "Never violate a woman, nor harm a child. Do not lie, cheat or steal these things are for lesser men. Protect the weak against the evil strong. And never allow thoughts of gain to lead you into the pursuit of evil" The Iron Code of Druss the Legend (David Gemmel)