Hi Dwane,
That's something i'm working on too so I don't have any easy answers.
At the moment I'm looking at mixing part-time salary work with part-time running a business. Not ideal in the long term, but it provides a safety net for transition. What does your wife do and what is she planning to do after maternity leave? What can you juggle with her in terms of salary work, running a business and childcare?
Also what spend do you have at the moment that isn't necessary? When children are small, so long as they are fed, warm and cuddled lots they will be content. What do you currently consume that you could save the money on for necessities?
I'm also working out how I can harness the Laws of aAttraction to manifest unity between running a business and being a mother...watch this space...