Originally Posted by Luca
Thanks for another great article! I have a question...how do you account for people who do really bad things like criminals? Do they have bad guides? Does that mean that they are hopeless and can't change since they have bad guides? Does it mean that they have these guides since birth?
Sometimes I have the feeling that in life I've received a lot of protection, guidance and help from somewhere...I guess guides. However, after my latest break-up I don't know what to think anymore. About a year and a half ago I started really praying that I meet someone ... The One. After a few months I did meet someone and we liked each other a lot. After we met we realized that we lived half a block away from each other and the morning after our first date we met at the bus stop (I guess we both saw those coincidences as good signs). It really looked like he was the one but things didn't turn out that way.It was a serious relationship that lasted for 6 months but it was not THE Relationship. I guess going through a break-up made me realize some of my shortcomings and also led me to a spiritual path but I am still confused as to why my guides "helped" me get into this relationship.
Perhaps, like you said, this relationship was to help you to grow spiritually and to learn what you do and DON'T want in a future relationship. Maybe your vision of the ONE was not the best for you and your spirit guides were helping you to see that. Or, maybe you took those two coincedences and ran away with them. But, don't take this to mean that your spirit guides led you the wrong way. And, just as important, don't take this to mean that your ears aren't working...=)
Everything happens for a reason, you just have to find the positive meanings from them. You also have to find the lessons that were meant for you to learn. Where did you go wrong in your relationship? Where did he go wrong in the relationship? What have you learned that you can change about yourself? What will you do differently next time? If you're honest with yourself...and take the time to look back over your relationship with a different perspective...you'll realize that your spirit guides were there with you all along...=)