I appreciate all of the responses! I'm not appalled by the way I am, I actually kind of enjoy it, I just don't like to upset my girlfriend with something she can't seem to understand
I really liked the introvert/extrovert article posted as well as the one from Lola
I've also been "The Way of The Superior Man" lately by David Deida, and while some of it sounds kind of like crazy New Age stuff, it IS causing women to make a little more sense to me in general. I've never had trouble meeting or getting along with them, but actually understanding them is a different story.