I value relationships, but find I am most attracted to "low maintenance" friendships. I am the person that will totally connect with someone upon a first meeting and we can be instantly friends, however I am not great at upkeep. Luckily, they must sense that or something b/c I feel with most people I can just pick up where we left off (even after years). My husband and I avoid alot of parties, calls,family events etc. to spend time together and are notoriously known for being the "ones that aren't coming" to whatever events. We realize that we need to stop leaning on eachother and be more social. One day at a time.
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