Sometimes I want advice, but then the person who gives it to me become to detailed or just say a random advice. Sometimes I don't want advice when I randomly tell someone what I am thinking of, and then get advice anyway. It is like I can't control it.
Sure I feel greatfull when something do really fit me, but mostly I feel like I am left out and someone just want to help me for their own feel-good-feeling and I want to know how to say stop when I want a stop to be implemented into the advice-giving...without being too rude. And also to also say more often "Now I am just ranting/talking to the void to hear how it sounds/just talking not wanting any advice" and then feel fine afterwords when I say no to advice after I have said just that.
It is so important to be able to take controll now that if I do not make it I feel like everything can fail big time soon. If I do sucess now, I feel like I will be so strong that advice given in the future will be just fine to hear...
Love Leelene
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