Question is - why didn't you do it sooner? You may think you were wasting time, but the time clearly wasn't right, cos you didn't do it then.
I met my husband 3 and a half years ago and we were both pretty taken with each other. I SO regretted saying goodbye to him just after meeting him (I met him while on holiday). We reconnected at the beginning of this year, and we're now blissfully married.
Fact is, neither of us could have doen it 3 years ago. We were both emotionally fragile then, and hadn't learnt enough. We both grew heaps over the 3 years so that this year he was prepared to move here and I was prepared to risk it.
We had the conversation,"why didn't we do this sooner?" but have both agreed that the 3 years were not wasted, they were spent learning how to have the relationship we have with ourselves and with each other now. Much better this way.
So continue focussing on who you need to be in order to have the universe manifest for you. You need to be able to deal with the result, so the timing, when it happens will be perfect.
Much joy to you
Hazel
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