Rose,
Sorry you burnt your pizza over your post - extra special thanks for taking the time to write it though.
Yes, this was the same girl. I don't really think it was about power and free meals either. She just doesn't seem to be the type for that. My gut feeling says that it boils down to a timing problem. That is, maybe if I could have been patient for another half year or longer, then maybe there would be a chance that things would work out.
I'm not that patient anymore. I never date more than one girl at the time (just not that kind of guy) and I can't afford to keep myself of the market for such a long time for the off chance that something might happen in the future.
The weird thing is that I am 100% over it already.
Jim.
ps: I went to a folk ball today (a friend had been pestering me until I finally caved in). Had a blast and you wouldn't believe how much attention I received from all the wonderful women who were there. Danced a couple of waltzes with one stellar lady and she just stared me right in the eyes the whole time - that was totally awesome!
Plus I made a new friend to go sailing with. So it turned out to be a pretty good weekend afer all