Teaching you how to have a conversation using a template may help, but unless you were raised isolated for society, it's a bit elementary. (to me anyways).
To avoid awkward silences you need a few things:
1. Get over the fact silences are awkward, or that they need to be avoided.
2. Be interesting and creative! If you're dull and boring, and talk about class every time you talk,it ain't happening.
3. Talk about sex as soon as appropriately possible. This is powerful! But most guys go bout it all the wrong way and act like pervs. This is not what you want. Clever and appropriate innuendoes and remarks about sex, and even straight up sex talk is great. You need to be able to read the situation to make sure it's appropriate, don't look like a perv! It's about having fun and showing you're confident and comfortable talking about it.
4. Blame her or make it apparent. Also purposely do it to see if SHE can keep it up. You don't need to do all the work my man, in fact, the less you do the better.
5. Don't giggle to break the tension. This one is really hard to break, but laughing to release tension does display lower status.
Hope this helps!
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