If you want to carry on a conversation, you must be comfortable talking about seemingly unrelated subjects. eg. one moment you're talking about work, then you talk about what types of music you like etc...
Think of a stand-up comedian. The things he talks about have nothing to do with each other. But you don't notice, or care if you do notice. Why? Because IT DOESN'T MATTER.
Most guys make this mistake. THEY TRY TOO HARD. Conversation is just conversation: it does not have to flow perfectly smoothly with subtle hooks between subjects or whatever. When you talk to your friends, are you desperately working out in your head what you're going to say next?
Be relaxed. Talk normally. Masturbate beforehand if you are that edgy or something.
What you must have is either complete faith, or total indifference. Either you must not care whether you get her or not, or you must know for certain that she is desperately craving your body.
If you really really really don't want to **** it up, then it's guaranteed that you will.
This is what confidence means: either faith or indifference.
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