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Originally Posted by cdn2wheeler  Two reasons: - You're an ego boost for her. You wanted something she had the power to provide or deny. She denied it, boosting her own power and subtracting some from you.
- She gets to go out on your dime, have a free meal, movie (or whatever) and she's already made it clear that you and she aren't going any further. She's using you, my friend (spoken from someone who's been used more often than I care to admit).
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Agreed 100%.
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My musical friend, unless you're already in a deep, trusting and meaningful relationship with a woman, never under any circumstances whatsoever, share feelings like that. There's a world of difference between what they say and what they mean when women say, "I want someone who's not afraid of sharing their feelings with me." It causes a fundamental unbalancing of the relationship dynamic, and the result is exactly what you've experienced: a huge power shift away from you and towards her.
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Disagreed 100%. Guys who are emotionally honest are hot.
I am totally in love with a guy who put his guts out there when the only deep thing he'd had with me is something I can't discuss in mixed company. If people were totally honest about feelings and intentions, wouldn't dating be easier? Why shouldn't things be like that?