i'm confused.
is the problem that you want advice, and people aren't giving you what you're looking for? or is it that you don't want advice, and people keep trying to give it to you anyway?
in any case, i think you should always be grateful when people try to help you... even if it isn't exactly what you wanted to hear, just be thankful for their concern, take what you want, ignore the rest, and figure out the rest of the answers for yourself.
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