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Originally Posted by lightthecandle  I'm a nice person, and people always tell me how innocent and sweet I look...so I don't know why they're looking at me like that.. |
1) Being sexually attractive or even enjoying sexual attention doesn't mean you're not 'nice.'
2) Some men are just creepy in the way they go about paying attention to a woman they find attractive. Some of these men are just immature; some are just jerks who objectify women; and some are really just creepy, scary individuals.
3) I agree that counseling (good counseling) would be helpful to you. That way maybe you can keep your internal alarm from going off at every appreciative look so that you can sort out the good guys from the creeps. My daughter calls this 'creepyguard'.
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Originally Posted by lightthecandle sorry if this is a strange/weird subject to talk about, or maybe I'm just supersensitive? |
Definitely not a weird subject - it's something most attractive women encounter every day. A lot of the time it's just hard to deal with, even for women without your experiences. Take Care.