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Originally Posted by Angela  I just want to say that this "hide your attributes so men will be able to resist you" is a good way for a person who is already feeling not free and shameful and at-fault to really buy into being more not-free and shameful and at-fault. Christian223, I think you mean very much to be helpful, but covering up and hiding yourself, lightthecandle, and feeling like you must protect men from your own desirability, is probably not going to promote feelings of self-love, freedom, and safety. |
I totally agree! That's not a good idea at all. It's just like me hiding behind fat. That's NOT a solution.
Escaping the glances by hiding is not a solution. When you gain self assurance and self acceptance and self love, you'll be able to feel good even if the whole world is staring at you!