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Old 09-27-2007, 04:23 PM   #1 (permalink)
lightthecandle
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Default this is kind of an adult subject...

I don't know if this is the place to write this, but I don't know where else to go..and its a bit embarassing, but..

I don't know about other girls/women but I feel really really uncomfortable when I see/realize that a guy or guys are checking me out, top-bottom, and my back side. I don't understand..I don't even dress slutty. I guess I am pretty (now), but I still don't want that kind of attention. for example these two guys in my Bio Lab class, keep looking at me...I can see it from the corner of my eye, but i'm afraid to look at them, and i guess acknowledge it. yuuuuuuck.

I'm a nice person, and people always tell me how innocent and sweet I look...so I don't know why they're looking at me like that..I don't know if I should be mean to these guys..or give them a cold stare, or just ignore them , to make them stop?
or I guess maybe i feel really gross because I was molested when I was younger?

sorry if this is a strange/weird subject to talk about, or maybe I'm just supersensitive?

I'd like to hear some imput from guys as well, and what they're really thinking when they stare at a girl.. I don't mind if guys admire my beauty/sweetness/innocence/ , I just don't want them staring me down like a dog
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