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Originally Posted by cdn2wheeler  It's probably less about the fact that you won't cook or eat meat than that it was OK for a while and then you changed your mind about it. At least, that's how I'd probably perceive it. |
I didn't say "cook or eat", I said "cook or buy". the "eat" thing already was before I met him.
I don't understand your point. Can you explain to me why I would suddenly change my mind about cooking meat or not after a while, if it's not about cooking meat??
I didn't say I won't cook for him at all any more. I said I won't cook any
meat for him any more. I can cook something vegan for him and he's absolutely free to cook some self-bought meat himself and eat it additionally to what I cook. He doesn't want, but that's not my problem.
you don't seem to take this seriously, but cooking or not cooking meat is a very important thing for me. Maybe for you that's different, but I really don't feel good doing so. That's not an excuse for something else, it's important to me. If I was fed up with cooking, I would tell him I'm fed up with cooking you know. I wouldn't need false ethical reasons.
(if your gf tells you something like that, wouldn't you take her reasons seriously either? would you assume that's an excuse for something else, although she explains like I did? amazing...)
Angela, basically there are three possibilities:
1. he learns to cook meat additionally to my vegan stuff
2. he eats something else and I don't cook for him any more
3. he leaves me
the decision is his now. I'll not change my mind.