If I fell out of love with someone, I wouldn't pretend to love them. That just won't work. Instead I'd do a gut check and would probably realize that what I really want is not what I currently have. Maybe my true desire is to have a different kind of relationship with the same person, a new relationship with someone else, or maybe just to spend more time alone and re-connect with myself.
I suspect the truth is that you do not want the relationship you have. Either the person you're with or the current form of your relationship isn't a match for you. You want something better or different, and you may or may not be aware of what that is. Until you come to terms with it and acknowledge your true desires, those feelings of emptiness will only grow stronger.
Earlier today I wrote on article on feelings that you may find helpful. I'll probably post it later this week. |