Do you like being a part of all the activities you're involved in, or do you feel you have to do them for some reason? I gave up playing the piano a few years ago and never regretted it since.
Can you use a template for the business plan? You can just use Google and search for "business plan templates" and find a bunch of results.
These are some good templates:
Template Gallery
Steve's time management articles are good as well:
http://www.stevepavlina.com/articles/do-it-now.htm http://www.stevepavlina.com/articles...oductivity.htm
If you want to be a better leader, read this book:
Amazon.com: The Leadership Challenge, Third Edition: Books: James M. Kouzes,Barry Z. Posner
It's one of the few leadership books based on empirical evidence and surveys of thousands of people on what makes a good leader.