Slamhot just usually jumps naked out of my closet as an apology. Thus far it's worked out okay.
The landlady found it less humorous when she came in to drop off some cookies though and was mistaken for me.
Seriously though... Here's a fine example: I discovered awhile back Slamhot was REALLY bothered when I'd poke fun at his age. At first I was surprised. Initially, I thought he didn't look his age at all. (Maybe I was a little smitten!
) So I thought teasing was fine. WRONG. First thing I said is that I wouldn't do it again. No age jokes pass my lips. And I pointed out I love ALL of him, including his age and experience. At the very least, he seems over it and is wonderful to me.