I personally recommend David DeAngelo's "On Being a Man". Within the DVD set he has MANY book recommendations that I advise pursuing. Dr. Paul Dobransky has some really excellent, understandable formulas. I also recommend Anthony Robins for his books and CD's.
At any local book store... least Barnes and Noble here.
Dr. Paul Dobransky's site David DeAngelo's "On Being a Man" 
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