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Originally Posted by Jill  Before you decide to leave, if -- as Erin asked -- you want to stay with him if he wakes up, perhaps you could try intending for him to wake up? |
That's great advice Jill. I think that's a great step.
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Originally Posted by Tripp444 No, I dont really discuss this situation with friends. I dont believe any of my friends would give me good advice. Also, I dont think I want advice. I have been focusing on developing my own intuition and trying to figure out what my inner guidance is telling me to do. I pretty much have my mind made up. But dealing with the logistics of it all starts to really wear on a person's spirit. |
Instead of seeing yourself as leaving your partner, try looking at it as you simply pursuing your passions in life. That should help with the logistics.
You can try staying married but pursuing your passions anyway. Then if a conflict arises it'll be a cut and dry choice. Is he trying to hold you back from growing or is he just not being a part of your life anymore? Either way, you're free to pursue what makes you happy, and he should understand that. But if things aren't at a breaking point now you can just keep doing what you want until they are; you don't have to worry about what might or might not happen in the future. He might surprise you still, and if he isn't directly holding you back what do you have to lose?