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Originally Posted by Brutha  How do you know?
Unfortunatly communication isn't that easy. The thing people intend to say and the thing that the other person receives is often something different.
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Yes I agree.....!! Even people talking face-to-face can misunderstand each other. Let alone online chats....
How do I know that's what annoyed her? Well caz I asked her. After the chat, I phoned and asked her why she changed drastically (she left suddenly by the way) and first, she told me that she got annoyed that I asked twice, and second, she got annoyed that I got annoyed by her rudeness, and told me that she didn't realise the message wasn't transmitted (and I didn't blame her for that), and that she had a right to tell me that I made her crazy.....
It's kind of hard to explain, really, simply because you don't know her personally, so it's kinda tricky to explain the situations.
In general she's nice and I care about her a lot, but she can be so negative about life, and constantly complains about things. I constantly try to cheer her up, but she always tries to find a way to "negativitise" (it's a made up word
) the situation.....
She'd complain about pizza, about her dad, about her mum (to whom, by the way, she wasn't talking for days, over silly things too!), about university. She gets annoyed if I wear t-shirt and asks me to wear a camisa or polo instead. Heck, she even mocked me and called me green, beginner, for having been intimate with only 2 girls. Not that I can't get girls; I do know a lot of them and had my chances, but I don't just do it with anyone and I want to do it only to those with whom I feel a strong connection.
She has great qualities too and that's what I love about her......and in fact.....I actually am in love with her. I've been wanting to tell her that lately, but I am having my doubts now and consider postponing until I can be sure if it's really worth it.
Her voice is so beautiful though
