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Old 09-25-2007, 02:55 AM   #8 (permalink)
NotesMaeve
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Originally Posted by zpivat View Post
I guess you completely missed my point. I did NOT want to inject any emotion at all.
She's a difficult person who gets irritated easily (and she even admits that herself, she also admitted that she's not that easy to be with). She's done this a couple of times but I just let it go, but this time I "exploded" a little because I thought it was so rude that she said how I made her crazy, and also when I tried to explain, she didn't even care.....
I just couldn't let it go again or else she'd just trample on me and think that she can be bitchy any way she wants......
No, I didn't. As Angela preaches: 100% responsibility. You seemed to be very emotional and agree you "exploded." Next time, try saying, "Oh, I didn't get all of the message. Weird." Then move on to another topic.

And I agree 100% with Brutha's post.

I thought Slamhot was mad at me today for example. Know what I did? I said, "Oh, I wasn't trying to make you mad. I just wanted to know ___. So how is work?" Explanation. Clarification. Change topic.
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