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Basically my girl and I had a little misunderstanding. I somehow felt that it's not really my fault (at least not entirely), but it seems that she is more angry than me. It happened yesterday, and since then she's not really talking and I'm rather sad because of it.

Basically what happened was this: we were chatting, and she said something, and apparently due to some strange technical reason, I only got one of her messages partially. Then I asked her the same question, but her reply was somehow rude, and then after that, when I tried to explain, she said "whatever", which I think is also a little rude. It's her nonchalant and "don't care" attitude that bugs me a little, I guess.....
So I just complained a little (very politely) and told her that she could've been more considerate towards me.
So yeah that's basically it.....and she is angry at me now and I don't really know what to do. I want to know you guys's opinions.....you can be 100% honest and I won't be offended if it's really my mistake. I just want to know if what I said was really that bad that she got so offended....

Here's our chat:


she: salut
me: Hi there!!!!!!
it's been quite a while since I saw you here.....!!
she: ?
me: got my message?
she: f**** WLAN
me: yes as always
did you get my first message?
she: no
me: Hi there!!!!!! ^^
it's been quite a while since I saw you here.....!!
she: yup
me: I missed our chats
she: well yeah
thx
how r u?
me: I'm great, thanks!!!!
and you??
what've you been up to today??
she: a lot (she said more stuff after this bit, but I only got this)
me: right.....
are you busy?
she: now no
just tired
me: what did you do? (hence I asked again because I didn't know what she really did)
she: I just told you
oh god you make me crazy (a little rude)
me: you didn't tell me
you just said "a lot"
she: groceries, market, laundry, decorated my room, cooking (the extra stuff that didn't get delivered)
I wrote that too
me: but I didn't see those (I tried to explain)
she: whatever (a little rude again)
me: "me: I'm great, thanks!!!!
and you??
what've you been doing today??
she: a lot
me: right.....
me: are you busy?"
there, if you don't believe me
she: you don't have to copy paste it
!!!!!!
me: but it's annoying and it upsets me when you say things like "oh god you make me crazy"
you get irritated really easily by small stuff....I don't understand why, and this is not the first time either....
she: right?
me: right what?
she: nothing
me: Please be a little more considerate......
you could've said it more nicely....and as you can see, I did not get that message
she: how can I know that you didn't get it?
in my history it is displayed
me: I guess that's caz it was sent from your end
but didn't reach me
she: yes whatever
me: I apologise if I offended you in any way....
but I just felt a little hurt too by what you said....
that's all
but please nevermind it okay??
I want to make peace now....let's not fight or get angry over this....
she: you're not the reason for me being okay or not
me: but you seem to get hurt by what I said.....
she: maybe
me: oh come on sweetheart!! =) =)
she: yeah
me: I don't want you to think that I deliberately hurt you.....far from it.........but I just thought that I had to make known what I felt, that's all. It was in no way intended to hurt you.....no way.....
she: I know
could we finish this now here?
me: sure
are we okay now?
she: no
me: what do I do so you forgive me?
she: Nothing