Based on the wording of your initial post I would say that you're thinking about going back with him because he's "not all that bad", "I wasn't the greatest", and there isn't anyone better on your doorstep right now. If that's the case.... you probably know you shouldn't go back to him.
If that isn't the case then, like the last poster mentioned, you need to think for awhile about what will be different this time. If you make positive changes, is he the type to reciprocate, etc.
Lastly, if you do decide to go back with him I suggest living apart from one another for awhile before you move in. "30 day trial"... lol. kidding about the 30 days - but if you're just testing the waters by seeing him a bit you might realize pretty quickly why you broke up.
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