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Originally Posted by NotesMaeve  Maybe she's done with you because you consider her less developed than yourself? Why wouldn't you want a relationship with someone you felt was equal or better? |
If I ever view anyone as more or less developed than myself in that way then you're right, I've already sabatoged myself... I do not know a person's heart, so I cannot say where they are in comparison to my own journey...
Although I was referring to shielding and withdrawing as the caccoon, I see now the connection of the view of the cacoon as being a perception of less developed... although I hate to admit it, I think you hit it spot on on this one.