Yes, you can go back to an ex. And no, you can't go back.
If you and your ex come to some sort of resolution about why you broke up in the first place and actually fix the problem (as opposed to just talking about fixing it), then there's a *chance* that it can work. But that said, it's pretty rare.
The other issue is one of "intuition" and "instinct" and "feelings" and so forth. In a romantic relationship, those things are important, but they're only one aspect of the decision-making process.
How often do we hear of women who stay with abusive partners and we hear phrases like, "But I love him!" and "I know he'll change" and "My instincts tell me that he's THE ONE"? They've taken their brains out of the equation.
In order for a relationship to be successful, there has to be congruence between your head, your heart and your sexuality. Miss any of them at your peril. Trust me on this. Been there, done that. More than once (slow learner, I guess).
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