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Originally Posted by Chado2423  This sounds like to me you have a rough time forgiving people... Your way of thinking makes me question... Are there really certain things that are ireparable relationally? Aren't all conflicts reperable in a certain context by working for either a "win-win" or a sacrifice? Or is it how one looks at the situation which creates the "beyond repair" mentality? Is it really honestly beyond repair, or is it that I just don't have the answers or the right attitude of unconditional love at this time? Do I lack the proper behaviors, thoughts, and attitudes to figure out what exactly it is that I am trying to do? |
Then I'm miscommunicating. There's a difference between forgiving people and destruction.
Sometimes things can't return to the state they were, even in the best relationship that ends up happy. Even in my wonderful relationship, we could never return to a different stage of our relationship. You can attract certain qualities and happenings, but people are individuals with their own minds.