thanks everyone for the responses. i really appreciate it, & they do resonate with me. i will apply it when making a final choice about my relationship with her.
currently, we only talk on IM. we're going to spend thanksgiving break together, which i'm starting to think maybe that's not such a good idea after all, if we're at this ambivalent point online. there's something about her that resonates with me a lot in that her stories are similar to mine, but i have chosen a different path from hers. i'm leaning towards allowing her to be while thinking of ways not to allow her to pull me down at the same time.
we're in the same country & about an hour driving distance away from each other.
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