Paul, that's one of my favorite questions, too. It sounds a little impertinent, but so what? There's so much information and so many ideas for living a life you love, filtering through them for ones that I can use effectively in MY life is a good idea. I believe that's your brilliant brain at work -- please quit calling my friend, your brain, stupid. Especially since it's just a reflection of my own.
So far, I find that using a perspective of subjective reality empowering. Actually I think that's just a new and fine-tuned version of how I've been practicing looking at the world since I was a teenager -- when I'm taking responsibility, anyway. I've tended to abandon that view when I wanted to blame the world for my problems. I think there's much I don't understand about what Steve says about SR, but taking 100% responsibility is something I am very clear works magnificently in creating a life I love.
Hey, weren't you working on a project awhile ago regarding creating a life you love, or manifesting your own reality (remember, when we were talking about getting the results of PATHS without using PATHS)? Did I miss your description of that project? Maybe you could link me to your articles, etc.
Thanks!