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Old 09-21-2007, 05:09 PM   #9 (permalink)
JimOfferman
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Originally Posted by Chado2423 View Post
But how can you adequetely make things right with a person from the past, without working at fixing what went wrong? That just doesn't seem to make sense to me.
What I was trying to say is that you can only make things right with her, if she will let you. That bit is entirely up to her. Angela's suggestion of writing a note to apologize might go a long way to her being open to your 'fixing things' and, perhaps, being friends. Again... only if she'll let you.

But if she really doesn't want to have anything more to do with you, the best you can do (for yourself) is let the past be the past and move on. I know it is heart wrenching to leave a relationship behind in conflict (been there myself), but sometimes you don't have a choice.

All the best,
Jim.
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