[Zukin]

Hi DQueens,

You may want to check out the books by Professor John Gottman. Unlike other marriage counselors, he's actually done extensive studies on romantic & interpersonal relationships using real married couples.

Amazon.com: Why Marriages Succeed or Fail: And How You Can Make Yours Last: Books: John Gottman

Amazon.com: The Relationship Cure: A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships: Books: John Gottman

Amazon.com: The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert: Books: John M. Gottman,Nan Silver