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Originally Posted by ZHereford  Are you saying you encouraged her to take no precautions?
You should help out, financially and otherwise. Even if she rejects the help, insist on it, not to feel less guilty but because you are partially responsible for the situation. |
ZHereford,
To a degree, I did encourage her. Intellectually, I
know I could get her pregnant, and all the consequences of unprotected sex. And yet, out of her so-called love, she would've allowed anything to happen.
You're right that I am partially responsible. And while I really feel guilty, I'm also aware that giving support is the right thing to do.
Right now, I already gone back to her. Honestly, taking responsibility for this stupidity of mine is scaring the living daylights out of me. I used to spend my time just idling, browsing the web and generally "wasting time". But I know its the right thing to do - to support her. I left my previous job, and am in position to a new one where I could presumably be where she needs me. But if that doesn't work out I'll even quit that.
Keep the advice/tips/info coming. Very appreciated.