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Originally Posted by JimOfferman  You have no choice but to move on yourself too, doesn't really matter whether she has really moved on or is merely acting like she has. Either way, you have no hope in hell to make things right as long as you cling to this frame of mind (looking at fixing the past).
Only if you move on, you'll be able to attract a new relationship - be it with her or with someone new.
good luck,
Jim. |
But how can I move one without resolving the issues of my past? It seems to me to be a bit paradoxical. It just feels wrong to leave her hurting because of me without working past that hurt before I move on. And I don't want to move on, I want us to be friends again. There is a difference isnt there?