You'll know when it hits you. Every once in awhile I'll have the meaning crop up right in front of me. And it always comes in these tiny packages. It'll be a note in my sweater from my boyfriend or I'll just have this really spiritual discussion with a coworker, and I'll find myself just filled with this intese feeling of connection and love, and it almost always makes me cry. When you hear it or see it reflected back at you, that understanding, and you know that the feeling you get from it what you've been waiting for your entire life, and you're just so grateful for that moment. It never really leaves you.