Originally Posted by Rose of Cairo
And as soon as I let him go, I meet him... guess whom I met accidentally again today?
He told me since his grandma is in the hospital, there is a big family drama, and he has problems dealing with this. He told me he hadn't even time to check my email. And he told me where he works tomorrow and that I am invited to visit him there. I felt he was feeling guilty towards me. I'll try not to should him anymore. I want him to feel free and happy when he sees me.
This is the biggest indicator. The moment you stop fretting and worrying about it, you get the result you want. And do your best to forgive him. Holding a big guilt sign over someone's head is the easiest way to drive a person away, forgiving them makes both people feel better. You could even acknowledge and appreciate the difficulties and stress all this drama has caused him and show that you understand.