There's probably no general thread on resolving conflicts because people often have trouble applying general principles to specific situations.
I agree with the suggestion that resolving conflicts with others starts with resolving internal conflicts. But the question of how to resolve those conflicts still remains. Steve's post is a good start.
Anything which fosters self-acceptance is another productive avenue. I suspect total self-acceptance would make acceptance of others so much easier, or even inevitable.
And while working on yourself, remember you can (and probably should) involve other people. Resolving your issues doesn't mean shutting yourself in your room until you've got everything sorted out. Engage others in the process, reflect, then discuss your reflections with your friends.
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